Get A Woman Through Your Blog ??
I just read a brilliant blog post from an author: How to Get a Woman with Your Blog by Nofie Iman.
Here’s some bleeps :
A friend of mine said most bloggers were not socially educated or charming, as well as careless about their grooming and clothing. She argued that most bloggers were nerd-hippie men, prejudice, proud, ignorant, shy, selfish, unattractive on purpose, and won’t take risks in their life and go for it.
Let’s face it, dating sucks. It sucks to be rejected by hot and busty women, and it sucks to be alone. It sucks to be so nervous around a woman that you babble incoherently and it is even worse to act like a stud and have her slap you in front of your buddies.
But you can really speed up your successes to super-sonic speeds by taking care of your blog “look”. It never hurts to have it in your arsenal. And that’s what this post is about.
Wowowow.. Hold it. Getting chicks from our blog ?? I never think about it before. Can you imagine that ??
Yes, there are other ways to make women attracted to you, like the confidence you project, the way you talk to her, the way you give eye contact, etc. That is all explained in many books and websites out there. They claimed that by following their method, you will get amazing results even if you’re so butt-ass ugly that you make horses bolt when they see you.
I think this idea is ridiculous !! Cause deep inside our heart - we’re always afraid to get rejected, or afraid we get a wrong person. Ok, I don’t think this is bad.
So how do we work with our blog to get women’s attention? Iman’s suggestions is:
- Map Women’s Attention. A key step in getting her attention is getting a good idea of where she will want to look. When you craft the page on the computer, your job is to balance the relative noticeability of all the visual elements on the page, so that she will be drawn to the things that are most important.
- Use Proper Colors for Your Blog. Psychologists believe that colors will often create an emotional state in a woman. Different colors speak different emotions. What emotions and feelings do you want her to get from your blog? For example, black means elegance, authority, dignity, sophistication, seductive, mystery. White means virtue, clean, status. Blue: loved, high regard, knowledge, trust, serious, responsibility, social status, caring, good health, tranquil, intuitive, trustworthy, calm, honest, loyalty, integrity. Green: relaxing, compassion, prosperity, prestige, growth, abundance, vitality, harmony, efficiency. Turquoise: refreshing, cool, imaginative, innovative, youthful. And there are many more.
- Plenty of White Space. Women’s eye needs space (guttering in typo language) round stuff to help her clearly and cleanly identify things. In general, the more white space the better. Of course, “white” space doesn’t have to be white, but it does have to be space!
- Be Clear and Brief. Women likes it much. On the whole, make sure that your writing is brief and well written. Paragraphs are short, typically one sentence, which is highly readable. Your whole message should be punchy and to-the-point. Don’t cajole, or try to intrigue. You don’t have time. Decide on your site’s personality, and stick to it. For a blog to work, it has to have credibility. The easiest way to be credible is to believe it yourself.
- Choosing the Right Beliefs. You don’t have always to tell the whole truth. Talk about positives, and avoid negatives, i.e. say what you do, or can do, what you believe in, how you work, what you have done, what your experience is, and so on.
- Use Podcast to Impress Her. In general, women get turned on by a few major categories of things such as voice tone, sensual (by no means sexual) language, and vivid descriptions. Women love to hear a sexy voice describing ideas, feelings, and scenarios in painful detail. So, why don’t you take some time, prepare your self, put a recorder, and start recording your voice, then publish it on your blog?
- Women Love Bad Boys. Why do women love them? There is an addictive emotional rush being around a guy that could literally do anything. A lot of these guys wind up beating their model girlfriends and spending time in jail. I have to mention that this personality type is the one that women are most magnetically attracted to. Again, this is because of the addictive rush that comes from being around them.
- There are Limited Numbers of Available Women on the Net. This is the type of myth promoted by whiners. They search for lame reasons why they can’t meet women, when in fact, there is no evidence anywhere to back up their claim. That is why it is called a myth and simply unfounded. Enough said.
Now What?
Though you can easily make women attracted to you despite having a less than ideal physique, having a “suitable” blog will give you a one up over everyone all of the blogosphere world out there.
Quite interesting, huh ?? 
